Tough Decisions End Up Paying Off
Whenever I feel like something in my life has to change I sit down and ask myself questions. I’ve learned that most times, we have the answers to everything that comes up in our lives but we don’t always take the time to think about it critically, objectively and with honesty. When choosing calisthenics and fitness as my career path, when deciding where I want to live, when I need to make a tough business decision, I like to coach myself and ask myself the questions that I’d ask any of my clients.
Sometimes we need to step out of our own way and look at the big picture. Ask yourself:
– What do you want the most?
– What are your goals in life?
– What is it that you are in this world for?
– How can you be happy?
Everything you ever wanted in this world can be yours. Picture your future and every single detail of it. Picture BIG and make milestones (not goals!) and best plan of action to get yourself there. Think BIG and clear.
– What are you focused on right now?
– Does it benefit you?
– Does it make you a better person?
– Are you focusing on the things that really need your attention, or are you focused on the things that don’t?
Ask yourself this before you fall asleep tonight; Where does my focus need to be, in order to get where I want to be. The key is to have a vision so clear, that nothing and no one can change your direction. Remember that if it were easy, it wouldn’t be as rewarding when you finally do make it.!